You know that feeling you get, when you are a fairly new blogger, you are cruising through blogs you read and you find that your name/your blog has been added to someone elses blog roll....you are a very happy and estatic...then you add them to your blogroll, etc..etc..
It's a great feeling....until......
You check in on that persons blog, you find your name removed...what is up, you wonder? What did I do to make that person not like me or want to read me anymore??
I have had that happen to me twice...in the two months I have been blogging. It upsets me..a lot. Why? I don't know..maybe it is kind of like when you are in school, you want to fit in...you want people to like you, etc....I hate that feeling.
I have been bothered about this all morning...I know it is petty, silly....but now I have a complex...I know not everyone is going to find me interesting..maybe I used too many curse words, maybe they got bored...heck, I don't know. How many of you has this happened too and how did you deal with it? Did you remove them..kind of like, well..if they don't like me, don't want to read my blog, then I am not going to link theirs or read theirs..childish isn't it...maybe blogging isn't for me after all..then again...why should I care what other's think? I have a few faithful readers...don't think I will lose their interests...at least I hope not..If I just get one or two comments a day, I am happy..but to lose a reader...it saddens me...it needles me, it makes me teary-eyed...Where did I go wrong?
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